Single women in the city and how they like enjoying/ indulging in myriad activities and finding themselves all over again!
How fascinating does the idea of being ‘lost and found’ sound? When was the last time we all dreamt of throwing our phones away and starting afresh in a different country with a different identity altogether? Wouldn’t we be lying to ourselves if we said we never, even for once, thought about rediscovering our true selves? As much as FOMO exists, let’s not forget how crucial it is to gift ourselves JOMO— The Joy Of Missing Out, that is. Listen, girl, you do not need to keep up with everything that’s happening around you. You are free to make a choice— to tend to yourself first. To discover. To Live. To Explore.
On that note, we touch upon a rather interesting topic for the season— for the ladies, of course. Well, it’s pretty much running along the lines of what we were discussing: Women who love exploring by switching off—from the digital bustle— and indulging in myriad solo activities to the fullest by living, loving and exploring! In a candid chat with a volley of women in
namma ooru (Bangalore) and everywhere else, we get interesting views that could probably serve up as great motivation to help you just go out there and live your life to the fullest! Read on!
“When I’m lazy or just in the mood, I spend my time catching up on the childhood shows on Netflix. Apart from that, I enjoy driving around the city, visit new cafes where I can read my books peacefully,” begins Punya Poonacha, a 26-year-old PR professional and freelancer. Adding how she wishes for the new year to be different because she hopes to put in strenuous efforts to tweak in conscious positive changes in her lifestyle, she asserts,
“I want 2019 to be different and adventurous. In order to make it that way, I have registered myself for the Lyrical yoga classes, rock climbing and booked my tickets for a solo trip to Bali this Summer!” While most women are raring to go, let’s not refute how the ‘marriage pressure’ looms over the heads of many. As per a popular 2018 report on
https://www.psychologytoday.com (/us/blog/living-single/201807/what-single-women-really-want); Many single women snubbed the idea of marriage. In fact, as per the study conducted, their number one priority was ‘being on their own’, establishing a career and financial security. This, in turn, is a survey, which holds a great deal of truth. On a scale of 10, if you are a woman below 30, how likely is it for you to quit everything and settle down? Yasmin Tinawala adds,
“I think women should begin to socialize and make friends with those from the opposite gender. No, not the creeps but those who make you laugh. Do something which would make you stay up until late. You’re never too old to find a hobby. I enjoy creating videos and emulating stars or discussing raging topics peppered with hilarity on social media. Point is, ensure you do not hide or conceal your love for something. No matter how inane it might seem, if you really like something— no matter what. Just do it! That said, whether you like it or not, you’ll see me voicing my opinions on social media a lot more than you’d expect!”
Punya Poonacha
Speaking about the same, City designer Brunda Gowda states,
“A lot of women are guilty of thinking that marriage is the beginning. Sure, it’s a new kind of beginning, but it’s not a prerequisite for having a great life. There’s more to being single than waiting, just as there’s more to any trip than the hours spent in airport terminals. Being single is a journey in itself, one of self-development, joys, and adventure.” And, this Bengaluru girl clearly has some interesting solo-tastic plans up her sleeve! She elucidates,
“Host a girls-only night. I think some coupled-up women forget how much we need each other. Try surfing, water-skiing, or some activity you don't already know how to do. Could be riding a bicycle. Go to movies and parties alone (you get to meet new people everywhere) So, little moments of surprise and serendipity can be our most cherished in the end. As much as we may want to map out our lives, that doesn’t mean things will go according to plan. Being single may not be what we anticipated for ourselves, here and now, but this time in our lives can be unexpectedly satisfying, marked by fun and fortuitous moments. You may be surprised by the places you go or even whom you meet along the way. Just remember to enjoy the journey.”
Brunda Gowda
Cathline Sharma, a 24-year-old content ninja( as she likes to call herself) didn’t have the best ending to the year 2018. But, she believes in taking things in a positive stride. So, no brownie points for guessing what her solo plans are, this season and for the year in general.
“I love exploring and trying out street food. If you follow me on Instagram, you’d see my flair for finding joy in simple things— like relaxing and relishing a takeaway from a nice Tibetan eatery, or just watching Netflix or petting my cats. This year, I hope to attend more girl bosses/ boss babe talks to inspire myself. I think women need to learn to strike a balance and it’s important to give it to yourself.”
Yasmin Tinawala
While most women (and men) avoid being called ‘single’ owing to the negative connotations; Yasmin Tinawala is one go-getter who doesn’t mind embracing her lone status.
“I’ve been single all my life, so in a way, I’ve learned to embrace the perpetual phase of being ‘alone’ if you’d like to put it that way. As a woman, I believe it is extremely important for women to have a code— like a bro code to hear each other out. I would also like to use Social media as a platform to reach out and voice myself and be more vocal. I think it’s important for women to speak their minds out— trust me, it’s the most liberating and adventurous journey you can ever be on!”
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